When we come to our partner (or a friend or family member) with an issue, we are often looking for one of two things: support or solutions. Sometimes, we need someone to simply listen, validate, and empathize with our feelings—this is seeking support. Other times, we’re looking for ideas, advice, or practical help to solve a problem—this is seeking solutions. A quick and easy way to clarify your needs is to ask “am I looking for a tissue (support)? or a screwdriver (solutions)?
 
This PDF resource provides an introduction to this framework, along with helpful charts to differentiate between ‘tissue’ and ‘screwdriver’ issues. Perfect for enhancing communication in relationships!
 
Size:
8.5 x 11 inches
 
 
This file is for personal use only and cannot be altered, reproduced or resold commercially.